Nil Demircubuk leads us through * a fast method of combining intellect and intuition * the Menemen technique, a slower method appropriate for really complex and unfamiliar problems For an article based on this video, visit https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/use-menemen-technique-combine-intuition-intellect-nil-senia-maymin For more videos in this series, check out the Tools menu at https://mycoach.zone

* Big mistakes can get you in trouble down the road. * Little mistakes have a small impact. Examples: * Big mistake at work: establishing a culture of fear * Small mistake: Make a decision, get new information, and change decision. This is part of the cello series, as well as the work remote series. For more videos in the work remote series, visit https://mycoach.zone

* When you get triggered, ask yourself, "What might be going on with that person?" * Watch the Cleveland clinic on empathy: https://youtu.be/cDDWvj_q-o8 * We can imagine another perspective. Could that person have had a terrible morning? * Curiosity makes you open to what's important to them. * Performer Rob: "Call your dad." For more videos in this series, visit https://mycoach.zone

This week in the Cello Series, we're talking about the words that we say to ourselves. Words to add to our internal vocabulary as we learn something new: * Yet… (Carol Dweck's Mindset) * Not bad for a … (George Vaillant Grant study) * Journey ("I'm a work in progress…" * Minimal goals (Something you can hit every single day) Cello Series #6

Here are just a few of the questions these coaches ask themselves: * How do I want to show up? * How many tomorrows are you going to put in before you get to today? * What lens do I want to look through? * What's one tiny-turtle step I could take right now? For the article based on this video, see https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/what-questions-do-our-coaches-ask-themselves-senia-maymin

How to ask more effective questions, testing our own conclusions. Orange cards in the "What if it were easy?" deck created by Silicon Valley Change coaches – What is the problem you want to solve? (2:35) – How might you look at this differently? (2:55) – What would your knee jerk reaction be? (3:30) – How could you be wrong? (4:27) – What are you avoiding? (5:32) These are all ways of looking at a problem from a different angle. This deck of cards can be ordered from Silicon Valley Change. For more videos in this series, see https://mycoach.zone/workremote

Senia demonstrates Perspective Coaching with Mandy Sieja. Mandy's current frustration is not having time to do the things she enjoys. Here are the steps to Perspective Coaching: * What's something that frustrates you? * Why is it frustrating? * Give your current perspective a name. * Try on 3 or 4 other perspectives, just like changing a sweater. Give them names. Be playful! * Reflect on what you learned from changing perspective. Visit Senia's bio at https://svchange.com/Senia View the rest of the webinars in this series at https://mycoach.zone/workremote